Raising Children Between Two Worlds: a parenting worksheet for Pacific families
Pacific children often move between a home with Pacific values and a school or community with different expectations. You do not have to choose one world. This worksheet helps your family decide what to keep, what to adapt and what to ease.
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What is inside
- A “keep, adapt, ease” framework for your family’s way
- Questions to ask your child, and a note on shame
- A worked example: Mere and Joe and a sleepover decision
- A “your turn” page for a conversation with your child this week
Who it is for: Pacific parents and carers raising children in the diaspora.
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Questions
What do I receive?
One PDF with 2 printable pages, delivered by email straight after purchase.
Can I print it more than once?
Yes, for your own family or household. Please do not share, resell or post the file online.
Is this therapy?
No. It is an educational worksheet for reflection and conversation. It is not therapy, diagnosis or emergency help. If things feel too big, see a doctor or call Lifeline 13 11 14 (Australia) or 1737 (New Zealand), or 000 / 111 in an emergency.
Is it made for one Pacific culture?
No. It is inspired by values shared across many Pacific communities, and families differ. Adapt it to your own.