Talking With Our Elders: a respectful conversation worksheet for Pacific families
Many young people feel torn between respecting their elders and being heard. Many elders worry about culture, language and faith slipping away. Both come from love. This worksheet helps you plan words that bridge the two.
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What is inside
- What elders and young people may each be feeling
- Conversation starters that open doors
- What to do if language is a barrier
- A worked example: Josh and his Nana, and a “your turn” planner
Who it is for: Young people and adults planning a hard conversation with an elder.
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Questions
What do I receive?
One PDF with 2 printable pages, delivered by email straight after purchase.
Can I print it more than once?
Yes, for your own family or household. Please do not share, resell or post the file online.
Is this therapy?
No. It is an educational worksheet for reflection and conversation. It is not therapy, diagnosis or emergency help. If things feel too big, see a doctor or call Lifeline 13 11 14 (Australia) or 1737 (New Zealand), or 000 / 111 in an emergency.
Is it made for one Pacific culture?
No. It is inspired by values shared across many Pacific communities, and families differ. Adapt it to your own.